You know, i love D's blog. Why? Cause she isnt afraid to speak her mind and doesnt give a flying fuck what anyone thinks of it. i love that about her. Her last few posts just tickled me. i know who she's speaking of. Not personally but i've read this person's blog. i find it an interesting read. i just love D's view on things. i have to admit i agree with what she's saying. It does seem unlike that someone can be that....how to put this delicately...niave? Yes thats the word i'm looking for.

As for myself, your damn right i know what Ice does for a living. i know some of His co-workers. i may not understand alot of what He does, but i at least know what His job entails. It's called conversation. We like talking together, about everything, including His work. Oh sure i just sit there at times and nod attentively and murmer agreements where i think they should go, but that is because i dont understand what He does. i know He helps people fix their computers. Do i know how or what it takes to reset and fix a spazzing harddrive or video card? Hell no. Not a clue what He's talking about. But i listen anyways. i ask questions and try to figure it out. Just like He asks about my day at work. He may not be overly interested in what i did that day or what my job entails, but He shows an interest. Why?

Oh dear lord, could it possibly be because He is interested in me? Interested in my day and what happened.

From reading this other blog, it appears, at least to me, that this couple doesnt speak on a personal level. Perhaps i'm wrong in that assumption. If i am then i will say i am. But that is the impression i am getting. i dont understand how a couple can be together for any length of time and not talk about their daily activities. i dont report to Ice about my day. i talk to Him about it. Same as He does with me. Its give and take. A partnership. i may be His submissive, but i am also His partner, future wife and step-mother to His children. i couldnt fathom not talking to Him about everything. There is nothing i'm not willing to talk about. Be it my past or the fact that i had a fight with His daughter the other night. He's always there for me to talk to. As i am for Him. We may not always agree, but at least we talk.

i couldnt imagine living without that. Not knowing what He did during the day or what His interests were. It would be like living with a stranger. And whats the point of being with someone if you think of them as a stranger, only to be associated with sex and BDSM-type beatings. i'm a person who needs intellectual stimulation. And He gives me that. He's always saying i'm the smartest person He knows. That i know something about almost anything. Well i read alot. LOL

He teaches me about His work with computers. And i teach Him about one of my passions. Horses. Something He knew nothing, literally, nothing about. Now? If there is something about horses on TV or in life, He can look at me and say, that one is a bay Quarter horse. He shows an interest in the things that interest me. So i just dont get how people can be together and not share everything.

As for knowing where He works. Well shit i have to. What if there was an emergency? i have an accident at work, one of the kids gets too rough horsing around and one of them breaks an arm? i have to be able to get ahold of Him. If He were to tell me i couldnt know those things. For myself, i'd start to wonder. What is He hiding from me? Why am i not allowed to know where He works? It would just scream something fishy is going on here.

As for the kids. Well they are aware of what their Father is as well as what i am. They know and understand that He and i are Master and sub as well as Dad and K. They are mature intellegent kids who know what BDSM is, maybe not the little details, but they get the basics. They actually think its cool, weird and kinky, but cool. They know i have a collar, they just dont see me wearing it. To them, that side of Us doesnt matter. Its just part of who we are. We arent that way infront of them. Only Dad and K. That side of Us is reserved for private time. But We are always upfront and honest with them.

And so to D. Amen hon. Shout your heart out. i for one love it. i may not be quite as bold as you. But i adore that you are who you are and you dont give a fuck what anyone else thinks. You give voice to what others, those who whine and slag you off i'm sure are in there too, are too shy, afraid or polite to say. i'll stand shoulder to shoulder with you and cheer you on.

To my Love, my Husband, my Soulmate, my Wolf and my Lord. Thank You. For being You, the One i can talk to about anything, anytime, anywhere. Thank You for showing an interest in me as well. Not just my body, but my mind as well.

Until later,

Always His angel[IW]