Greetings from nienna
A place for me to muse, rant and mutter to herself.
Remember that these are my thoughts and may not always jive with your own. Note: This blog contains Adult Material and is not suited for those under 18 years of age.
nienna
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There comes a time when some things just have to be said. Many people think that online is just that, online, but few seem to see that in many cases it does affect a person's real life as well. Now dont get me wrong, i'm no angel when it comes to online dalliances. Although mine were always well known to Ice. In fact i wouldn't so much as speak with certian people in pvt unless it was ok with Him. One thing i have come to realize is that there is no safe online relationship. At some point another party gets hurt and upset.
Case in point, a couple in a real life relationship, have been together many years and plan to spend the rest of their lives together. However, he starts up a relationship with another woman online and doesnt inform his real life partner. So when she finds out, she is crushed, betrayed and angry. She's is told its nothing and get over it, dont worry about it. Well how is that right? This is affecting her on a very deep level and no one seems to care. Her love is devoting a good portion of his time to another woman, calling her pet names that belong to you and having cybersex. To her that is a form of infidelity. The other woman says its not, well if you ask me it is. Take a look around and you will find countless marriages that have broken up because of it. And yet you sit here and say it means nothing?
Online may not be a physical meeting of bodies. But it is a very strong emotional bond. Many of my readers will know my own relationship began online and moved to real life many years ago. Both He and i left who W/we were with at the time to be T/together. So dont tell me it cant happen. It would be one thing if it was a real life affair. There's an actual person there you can confront and if the need strikes you, beat senseless. Online is a different matter. How do you combat that which can be so easily hidden? Constant vigilance? Well sure you can try that. See how far it gets you and perhaps you will get lucky.
i have fought this battle myself. Fought tooth and nail for what is mine and will continue to do so no matter who wants to try get in my way. Sometimes things work out for the best. You will know who you are. It's still a horrible thing to go through. Wondering who he is thinking about, what is he doing when he isnt with you. i was lucky, it wasnt easy but W/we made it through. So to any of you out there who may want my Man. And trust me i am well aware of the allure and appeal He holds. i fell in love with Him and left another man to be with Him remember? Let me just say this, Piss off, fuck off and get your own Man. Dont tread where you are not welcome. He is a flirt and a tease this i know well. Do not take this to heart and think that He wants you. He is like that with everyone around Him.
On another note. i've made the blog rounds today and see that again there apprears to be a war on. All i will say is this. Leave me out of it. i will converse with whom i choose and if you dont like that person. Tough. i refuse to choose a side and get sucked in.
